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Author: ConfusedDating Subject: Not trusting after divorce

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Registered: 07-26-2011

posted on 07-26-2011 at 18:21 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Not trusting after divorce

I am dating a woman I love very much. We have been together approaching a year. She is a wonderful woman and a single Mom who has raised her kids on her own after surviving a difficult relationship.

I have tried in many ways to show her I love her and care about her and believe in her. However, it seems like the more I try to convince her that the glass is half full as far as our relationship goes, she keeps pointing out reasons why the glass is half empty.

When I diffuse on excuse she seems to come up with another one. Now that I had to move away for work it has gotten worse. She had gotten back together with an old male friend and seems to want to keep me at arms length.

The more I show her I love her the more she acts like it is not real...telling me that she knows I "care" about her. She has a very hard time trusting and seems to have very strong walls I find myself continually trying to bring down.

I love her very much and just don't know what to do. It seems as if when I am myself she is just waiting for "proof" that this is not real.

This definitely hurts and I am not sure what to do.
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